28 May 2007

the dreaded L word

no, it ain't life, it ain't love, and it ain't lust, too. and no, it's not even lesbian. or libido.

i think the most dreaded L word anyone of any sexual persuasion is afraid of is...loneliness.

people have different ways of coping with loneliness. people have different reasons why they feel lonely. people create different activities to avoid loneliness. people make up a hundred excuses to ignore loneliness.

loneliness is a part of life.

such is life, i guess. another dreaded L word, perhaps. life. and to have them in tandem -- the loneliness of life, living with loneliness -- is a scary thing for most people.

i don't understand it when people give heavyhanded comments about people and their loneliness, and their way of coping with it, or escaping it. people are as diverse as ice cream brands and flavors, and it's to each his/her own on how one would survive outside the freezer. melt or evaporate. transform or avoid. it depends.

why these thoughts? wala lang. i just don't get it when people have judgements about someone who copes with loneliness in a different way than they would. [hm shet tama pa ba inggles ko? hirap mag-blog ng bangenge hehe]

why can't they leave these people alone?

ewan ko. sabi nila, kasi they care. pero do they, really? i don't understand this. if they really understand others, di dapat hindi agad sila nagbibitaw ng mga salitang makakasakit sa mga tao. bakit di na lang nila tanungin muna kung bakit naganap ang isang kaganapan sa isang tao bago nila ito husgahan. nalulungkot naman ako sa ganitong paraan. sobrang lungkot.

huwag lang sanang umabot sa isa pang dreaded L word: luhaan.

sana sa lahat ng thoughts and conflicts connected with these things, wala na lang sanang uuwing luhaan. at sana kung luluha man sila, sana maintindihan muna nila ang mga kadahilanan ng bagay-bagay bago sila maghusga ng mga tao.

kasi ang tao, iba iba. tulad nga ng ice cream.

sana huwag tayong matunaw lahat.

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