23 May 2006

SEE YOU ON WEDNESDAY NIGHT

see you on wednesday night, people. penguin cafe gallery near remedios circle in malate. our photo exhibit will have its final run and we're going to have a program to mark it. so whether you support me as a friend or colleague, i hope i'll see you there. we're having free red wine and who knows... if it doesn't rain, will bring my bottle of absinthe. lesbian vampire mode ako lately hehe. ching!

anyway here's the announcement:

Penguin Cafe (Rockola Cafe) and Babae sa Tag-araw Photo Exhibitors  

present the

 Closing Program of the

 Babae sa Tag-araw Photo Exhibit

 on May 24, Wednesday, 9:00 p.m. with...

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 Performances by

Djembe Players and Dancers from Burkina Faso (a must-see)

Isha

Carol Bello

Cynthia Alexander (tentative)

Poetry by

Libay Linsangan Cantor

Yanna Verbo Acosta

Plus surprise guests/performers and music jam!

 Open music jam and open mic poetry reading after the program follows. Bring your stuff and chill out with us!

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BABAE SA TAG-ARAW photo exhibitors are:

Carolina Rodriguez Bello

Libay Linsangan Cantor

Aileen Familara

Indira Endaya

 FREE ENTRANCE!

Penguin Cafe-Gallery is near Remedios Circle, two doors down from Changku?Changyu japanese resto's corner. see you folks.

 

20 May 2006

yay and boo on the intl day against homophobia

reposting from an email, i just wanted to highlight this:

‘Hall of Shame’ Shows Reach of Homophobia On International Day Against Homophobia, Violations Mixed With Victories

(New York, May 17, 2006) – As people in more than 50 countries today mark the International Day against Homophobia, Human Rights Watch named to a “hall of shame” five public officials who have actively promoted prejudice against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in their countries. Human Rights Watch also pointed to five recent advances that give hope for a future free of hatred and homophobia.

“This ‘hall of shame’ does not claim to include the worst offenders, but it highlights public officials who have failed in their basic duty to respect human rights for all,” said Scott Long, director of the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) Rights Program at Human Rights Watch. “The abuses these officials have caused or countenanced symbolize the daily, invidious forms of homophobia that countless people face around the world.”

The public officials named to the “Hall of Shame” for their actions in 2005-2006 were:

Senior Superintendent of Police Ashutosh Pandey of Lucknow, India, whose agents used the Internet to entrap four men and jailed them under his country’s colonial-era sodomy law;

Immigration Minister Rita Verdonk of the Netherlands, who sought to deny asylum to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Iranians, threatening to deport them back to a country that imposes the death penalty on homosexual conduct;

President Olusegun Obasanjo of Nigeria, who supports a law imposing five years of imprisonment on anyone who is involved in a lesbian and gay organization or publication, publicly supports lesbian and gay people’s rights, or even publicly displays a “same-sex amorous relationship”;

Moscow Mayor Yuri Luzhkov, who vowed to ban Russia’s first-ever lesbian and gay pride parade, claiming he had to protect the rights of “the majority”; and,

Alabama State Representative Gerald Allen, in the United States, who moved to strip public libraries of books by lesbian or gay authors, promising to “dig a big hole and dump them in and bury them.”

“Sodomy laws and surveillance, censorship and silencing, inequality and official discrimination, arrest and torture, are realities for many LGBT people on every continent,” said Long. “Homophobia has a global reach.”

Human Rights Watch also pointed to five countries that have made exemplary progress in combating rights abuses based on sexual orientation or gender identity:

Brazil, where a landmark government campaign for a “Brazil without Homophobia” supports LGBT groups in the struggle for equality;

Fiji, where in August the High Court ruled that the country’s sodomy law was unconstitutional holding that, “What the constitution requires is that the law acknowledges difference, affirms dignity and allows equal respect to every citizen as they are”;

Romania, where a decade of domestic and international pressure led to the repeal of a sodomy law and to the passage of broad antidiscrimination protections;

South Africa, where a Constitutional Court ruling in December opened equality in civil marriage for gay and lesbian couples for the first time on the African continent; and

Spain, where in the wake of marriage equality, parliament is debating a bill to give transgender people expansive rights to legal recognition of their gender identity, based on a psychological evaluation and without making surgery a prerequisite for those rights.

LGBT groups in more than 50 countries are marking the International Day against Homophobia, an initiative launched in 2005 (www.idahomophobia.org). Held on May 17, it commemorates the date on which the World Health Organization removed homosexuality from its roster of disorders in 1990. This year, it has been endorsed by a resolution of the European Parliament.

alam niyo na ngayon kung saan ako pupunta kapag nadepress na ako ng super sa bansang ito. where the latinas are, of course hehe. yung tunay na golden brown-skinned ha, hindi yung may mga aquiline noses.

!carnavale!

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sa ibayong balita, ang inyong lingkod ay kasalukuyang tinitiis ang pagbirit ng "nakapagtataka" sa videoke sa taas ng internet cafe na ito sa legarda road sa baguio habang ginagawa ang post na ito. naburyong ako sa pagkain sa behrouz ng dinner (ya, meron na dito, pati SM City - ngayon ko lang nakita e bakit ba) kaya bago bumalik sa self-imposed writing hibernation, contact with the outside world muna.

shout outs to my readers who always give comments or who gave comments first time. thanks mga mare and pare for sharing your views on tech things and life stuff. i truly appreciate them. keep them coming.

and to my readers who don't give comments but who said they read my blog from time to time pero ayaw magpakilala. well, nakilala ko ang isa recently hehe. umamin e. thanks kiri. yes i'm talking to you! hehe! you didn't leave a number sa postcard invite niyo ng exhibit ni kawayan e kaya dito na kita kokontakin. sorry i missed your opening sa boston gallery ba yun? saka yung STexposure video collab sa mag:net. kasalukuyang patungo sa baguio ang inyong abang linngkod ng mga panahong iyon. sensya na. subukan kong dalawin pagbaba ko next week. hinahanapko actually yun vocas bar-resto ba yun nina kids dito pero ilang balik ko na sa session ay di ko pa siya masilayan hay...saka umuulan lagi dito so dedma sa far places.

punta ulit kayo sa penguin sa wednesday may24. closing na at may jam.

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next time na baguio photos pag nakauwi na ko sa sarili kong computer. di ko na matiiis ang videoke peeps dito e. tangna chaka-opm na ang genre eh (think hale, cueshe ek). di ko feel.

06 May 2006

two things

i realized certain things over dinner tonight, one mundane and one that mars my mundo:

1. that i hate romaine lettuce pala, and
2. i'm through tolerating backstabbers-pretending-to-be-friends

i could have added "i hate matapobre people" especially those who look down upon people who might not be as fucking "cultured" (read: culturaly colonized) as they are. but that one is actually pet peeve numero...uno? basta top ten siya sa pet peeves sa lyf.

to laugh at people just because they they have the "improper table manners." magsama sila ng isang school official sa montreal na ilang beses pinarusahan ang isang fil-canadian pre-adolescent just because he was eating with a spoon and fork, not a fork and knife. it's a hot topic in several egroups. tinatamad lang akong hanapin ang link pero nasa isang online dyaryo siya. this official went as far as saying that eating the filipino way (with a spoon and fork) is eating like a pig. and other derogatory chuchus. racist ang puta.

i've never really tolerated people who poohpooh others' table manners and humiliate them directly like that. even so those who do that behind my back (kung ako ang mina-malign nila) or behind my friend's back kung siya ang mina-malign. akala mo ang lilinis ng mga hinayupak, ano? ewan ko ba. kanya-kanyang eklat na lang sguro tayo pero huwag na lang sana nating maliitin ang mga taong kakaiba sa atin. as lgbts laluna, we should know better than to malign people who are different. or maybe they don't really look at themselves as "different." parang yung isang forum ng NGO ni de quiros dati kung saan sabi ni direk joel lamangan na di daw siya nakaranas niyang "discrimination-discrimination" na yan na pinagsasasabi ni jonas dear of akbayan sa same panel. tangina sarap siyang sipain. parang itong mga nagmamaliit sa mga taong kakaiba sa kanila. tangina i have no patience for them.

this shows how matapobre people can get. bakit kaya sila ganun? siguro hindi nila naranasang isipin kung ano ang buhay ng ibang tao na mas mahirap sa kanila and all. ibang klase. classist.

tapos eto pa. i have some ek about language before, pero nagbago paningin ko when i started editing for the vernacular PINOY TIMES. lalo kong na-appreciate ang tagalog at filipino. and i also realized the sad fact na asians use a foreign language (english) to communicate with one another during my stint at Probe's imaging the mekong conference. imagine me struggling to understand this vietnamese's explanations and this cambodian diligently trying to understand mine. doon mas lumawak ang pag-iisip ko na di dapat natin ikinahihiya ang mga taong di perpekto ang inggles dahil hindi naman natin ito first language. di ba?

but the thing is, sometimes, people also use this as some kind of benchmark to malign other people. as if ang galing-galing nilang human beings. on the contrary, they're not being human at all if they malign people like this - tinitira ang class at language skills. e sila kaya magaling sa sariling wika? tignan natin.

konektado rin ito dun sa "phil. lit in english" eklat na nire-reject ko na ngayon. and to think these writers are not even ashamed to admit na hindi sila sanay magbasa ng filipino. tangina. nasaang bansa ba kayo?

well, anong relasyon nito sa number two? nalungkot lang ako kasi nadiskubre ko na ilang taong nagpo-pose bilang kaibigan ko ay ganito ang ugali. nakakalungkot. ayoko na silang maging kaibigan.

hindi ko alam na ang pagiging kaibigan pala ay conditional. na hindi ka nila susuportahan unless meron silang ek na sundin mo dapat o may di sila gusto sa yo na dapat mong baguhin. labo ba? okay, let's just put it this way: the first time i had a girlfriend, i excitedly told this to a close friend of mine. you know what she said? "i'm disappointed at you." and we never talked again for years after that. can't people just be happy for you dahil happy ka sa karelasyon mo, straight or gay? isn't the point there ay makita nilang masaya ang kaibigan nila?

but eventually, my friend turned out to be a really good one. she was able to exorcise her homophobia and we are now good friends like before. dito ko na-a-appreciate ang mga film chums kong tinatawag naming conconistas. the conconistas never fail me as friends. and you know what? i truly wish i could find more lesbian or bisexual friends who will be as true to me the way the conconistas have been. kahit we have never communicated closely these past few years, buo pa rin ang support nila sa akin, and i'm just so freaking touched by all that that it makes my heart cry with joy, honest. napaka-rare ng ganyang friendships at i'm glad i still have them.

and my heart also cries out of sheer sadness because i can't really say the same about majority of my lesbian friends, only a handful (one hand talaga). or at least those who posed as really good friends but the moment i hooked up with somebody they hate, they dropped me like a hot potato.

in solidarity kayo diyan. you're as fake as gucci bags in mongkok. even faker.

hindi na sana ko masa-sadden if they left me alone. but if they start dissing me and the person i hooked up with, ibang usapan na yun. write-off na ito. for good. for real.

at least some of them have been trying to get in touch again. happy ako doon. kasi naman doon talaga nakikita kung sinsero ang tao. at nakita ko yun sa kanila kaya forgivable. pero yung iba? wala, fakers lang talaga. fakers na nga, nagdadadaldal pa sa ibang tao tungkol sa reaksyon nila sa akin. now how vile is that?

ang masasabi ko lang, ang mga nagdi-dis sa akin, timatamaan talaga ng karmic retribution. baka you wanna look around you and see what happened to you, your job, your life... karma yan, chong. karma. kahit ganito ako, mabait ang nature sa akin. the more you yakyak, the more your ass gets whupped. i don't even have to snap my fingers in a circle to let that happen. it happens even while i'm asleep. i kid you not.

tangina talaga jim morrison tama ka. people are strange.

hay, tama na nga yan... on to other things...

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summer is workshop season so pinuputakte ang kamaynilaan ng iba't ibang arts and crafts workshops. i'm giving three myself supposedly, pero di na namin itinuloy yung isa sa upfi kasi medyo hagard-hagardan ang byuti ever sa institusyon iyon sobra. pero masaya ako at kinansela namin ito. nakahinga ko ng maluwag, haaay...

yung isa kasi di siya open to the public. specific ito for teachers naman na sponsored ng DepEd and it's in baguio to boot so i'm looking forward to that.

the third one is the one open to the public. if you're interested, call up the ortigas foundation inc library at 6311231. it's from may22-27, pero yung may22-25 ay from 6-8pm and yung may 27 9am-4pm ang culmination peer workshop. it's a basic basic scriptwriting workshop for those who just wanna try their hand at scriptwriting for film and tv and without any background whatsoever. para bagang scriptwriting for dummies ini. it's around 3750 pesos and from the number of people texting, i thinkit's gonna be filled up soon so hurry up and inquire. look for ms kiel.

i also have one pa sana by june at naka-sked na siya (film appreciation and criticism) pero methinks i have to resked that because of my directorial work.

yes po, patuloy pa rin ang directing ko sa LOVELY DAY kaya nood kayo tuwing sabado ng umaga 10am sa gma channel7.

di ba ang ganda ng buhay ko? kasi hindi ako backstabber blabbermouth unlike some people i know... >:>

okay enough gloating. continue living.


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Your life hasn't turned out how anyone expected, thank goodness!

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